Irina Costei
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To honor this month’s Thanksgiving holiday, I wanted to express my gratitude towards music. Hopefully, this will inspire you to reflect upon how music impacts your life in a positive way.

Playing piano has helped me cope with everyday uncertainties. Indeed, there are many things I cannot control in my life, but I can definitely control what I get from my piano practice. Alternatively, I can always focus on the positive things that happen to me, instead of focusing on the negative. When I feel like I haven’t made much progress, I think of all the small things that I did achieve and learn. Listening to music while cleaning up, working out or simply relaxing helps me feel inspired and motivated. So while music is doing so much for us, I propose we take a moment to acknowledge these things.

My Gratitude Towards Music

Expressing gratitude for music is a simple and uplifting way of becoming aware of music’s positive impacts on one’s life. Many people find that playing piano has a calming effect, leading to less anxiety and a relaxed mind. Others may find that music helps reduce physical pain in some areas and improve cognitive function. In fact, many music therapists use music to help patients recover after neurological events.

So, the question is: what am I grateful for? I am grateful for having an amazing Facebook community with whom I can share my piano challenges and successes. Also, I am grateful to have a supportive husband who listens to me repeat the same music mistakes again and again over countless hours. Last summer, I was grateful that my municipality installed outdoor public pianos where I could play for a small audience and get encouragement. I also received a free basket of veggies when I played during Farmer’s market hours.  As a birthday gift from me to myself, I was grateful to have the financial possibility of upgrading my keyboard. I am grateful to have an amazing online piano school with amazing instructors which enable me to learn at my own pace, and to get constructive feedback.

couple at public piano outdoors

Count Your Blessings

Today, I would like to invite you to reflect upon the positive ways in which music has been present in your life and express your gratitude:

When you were a kid, did you take piano lessons? Have your parents signed you up for piano lessons, paid for them, drove you around every week? Have they attended your recitals and supported you during stressful times such as examinations, contests, recitals and auditions?

If you’re new to the instrument, have you taken the time to appreciate the privilege of starting to learn an instrument from scratch? To be thankful for having the financial means to buy an instrument and pay for piano lessons? Are you grateful for having the time to practice on a regular basis and have access to technology, good quality tools and learning resources?

Do you have the opportunity to be surrounded by other musicians with whom you can jam and share ideas? What about your church friends or your weekend garage band?

Do you live close to a music venue where you can attend concerts and get inspired?

Do you have 10 healthy fingers?

The list could go on. In fact, I encourage you to write a list of 10 things that you are grateful for related to your piano journey. Bonus: get extra points for actually thanking people that have been part of your music journey.

Importance of Expressing Gratitude

As musicians, we tend to be a little perfectionistic. Indeed, we feel like we are never good enough. “I will play at that outdoor public piano once I’m done learning this song…” Does that sound familiar? We let the fear of “not good enough” get in the way of “good enough.” Sometimes, we even compare ourselves with fellow musicians and think they are SO much better than us. In fact, we see professionals at concerts and then think “I’ll never be that good.” “I should practice more, but my job is so demanding, I don’t have enough time.” “I need more jazz lessons to create my own arrangement…”

How about changing our mentality? How about TODAY, you decide that you are ENOUGH. Being positive will attract more positivity into your life. I am good enough for my level. At my current level, I can play a few short pieces. I only have 20 minutes of practice per day, and I am proud of committing to those 20 minutes. It took me one month to learn the intro to my piece, and I’m happy I learned it! I am working on my skills a little every day and this will have a compounding effect over time!

Some of you may be familiar with the Law of Attraction. It says that your thoughts can influence outcomes in your life. By cultivating positive thoughts, the emotional vibration within you will be immersed in positivity, progress and success. Practice projecting yourself into a positive future: “What if I participated in that Student Assessment this month in order to get constructive feedback so that I improve?” By doing this, you will gain confidence, and you will find yourself propelled towards more challenges, which ultimately will make you a better pianist!

Gratitude for Music

To conclude, I think that by expressing gratitude regularly, you can become better at playing the music you like at the piano. Simply going over the things that you CAN do, and focus on the positive outcomes will, in the end, generate more positive outcomes.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!


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